Monday, May 12, 2008

The latest book club

I think by now we have a steady group in the book club, and, except for Molly, everyone else was at Rachel's on Saturday, but I will write a brief account of what we talked about on Saturday anyway, if anyone cares to read. I just want to say that despite the gloomy topic, I had the best time, as did Joseph. It's great to get to know all of you I hadn't known before, and for the kids to get to know each other.  Who was there: Rachel and Ila (of course), Kelley and Evie (in an awesome Mexican dress), Analisa and Asher, Erin and Santiago (in a Che onesie), Bridget and Edie, Carrie (did I spell this right?) sans child, and Joe and myself. 

As for the book, we tried to draw the line between fact and fiction, but of course could not do that. There is not much info on the Internet, either. I found one site interesting:

http://www.vermontwoman.com/articles/1206/mirabal_sisters.shtml

I guess Julia Alvarez, Dede, and Minou visited this college, so the story is about all three of them.

We also discussed Dede: I initially thought she wasn't much of a heroine, but the others convinced me otherwise, pointing out how hard it must have been to be the one left behind, and how it's not a small feat to raise all those children and keep the other sisters' story alive. We talked about the other sisters. We all were partial toward Minerva, though, having children of our own, we were not as sure as we probably would have been at age 20 that we would join the revolution as easily anymore. Patria, we thought, was the sister who grew the most, and Mate was interesting, because it felt like her heart was never fully in it, that she did it for the love of Minerva and her husband, at least partly. 

We wondered if their deaths could have been avoided. This book actually reminded me of the Chronicle of Death Foretold by Marquez: you know from the start what's going to happen, but you keep hoping it's going to change anyhow. So although I knew they were going to die on that pass, I kept seeing all the ways they could have gotten out. But of course, as Erin pointed out, it wasn't a matter of if, but only of when. I also read that their murders finally galvanized the people, and Trujillo was overthrown later that year, I think.

Is there anything else that someone wants to add? The discussion actually went on for a while, interspersed with the usual conversations about children, so I am sure we talked about a lot more, but I can't remember right now.

In any case, we decided for a lighter reading for the month of June, and decided on The divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood. I am perhaps ashamed to say that this is one of my favorite books. Now, don't expect this one to be completely light either, but it definitely won't give you that doomed feeling that I had the entire time I was reading In the Time of the Butterflies. And, since I won't be here in June (flying to the motherland for Joseph to be spoiled by his grandparents), I hope you will be posting on the blog so I can vicariously participate.

Thursday, May 8, 2008

Two quick thoughts

In the Time of the Butterflies creates characters out of women who really existed... does anyone know how the book was received by people who really knew the Miraval sisters and how much this parallels their actual lives?

Also for some reason thinking about both this book and the previous one really has me thinking about the role women play as "keepers" of religious faith for families and societies....

See y'all this Saturday!

Tuesday, May 6, 2008

Me again

So, how is it that we decided that The Bell Jar was too depressing and decided to read this instead? I am about 120 pages away from the end, and I don't want to continue (though I also don't want to put it down). 

Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Children's books

Julia Alvarez really  nice children's books. We have checked out two of her books. I don't know if she has more, but I really enjoyed them, and I am going to assume that Joe did too. Check them out.


Friday, April 11, 2008

totally unrelated

I know we only read books by and about women here, and you are all probably ahead of me and read this one already, but I am reading (listening to, but after years of internal struggle, I've decided that's the same thing) Little Children, and I just had to share with you how drawn by it I am. It's eerily making sense. I don't relate to any one character all of the time, but it feels like such a perfect book for people with little kids. Have you seen the movie? I haven't, but I am sure I will after I am done with the book. 


Sunday, April 6, 2008

Eat, Pray, Love Discussion

The meeting was at Bridget's house on Saturday morning. Erin, Analisa, Rachel, Kelly, Ksenija, and Bridget were present. Here are some of our thoughts:

-Many people had different favorite and least favorite sections of the book. Kelly enjoyed India, Bridget stuggled through it. Others disliked Italy, but loved Bali and so on. We wondered if we were liking/disliking the stage she was at emotionally, the actual place, or how she traveled though each place and what she was doing.

-We discussed her decision to not have kids. We all agreed that it is a bad decision for people who do not want kids to go ahead and have them anyways. How about the decision to have kids? Is it the ultimate selfish act or selfless? We do know that a lot of the pieces that follow after having the kid are not selfish, i.e. changing diapers, up in the night, etc. Some felt that you become less selfish from having a kid.

-We all agreed that she is pretty self-absorbed....understatement of the year! While this did get tedious at times, that is also sort of the point of the book. She made these choices to have this certain life and now has a best seller. Good for her for making that happen. What is her original ex-husband thinking at this point?

-Her and Felipe: What is going to happen now? Will it last? Many of us want to read her next book just to know how it all unfolds. She sure had her life work out well for her. She went on this trip and fell in love with someone who gives her a sex injury? C'mon!

-Felipe's perspective on Wayan and the house: Some knew Wayan would try something sneaky all along. Others were naive up until the point where Felipe explains it to us. We thought his perspective was pretty insightful.

Overall, while we thought this book got a little preachy and self indulging at times, most were happy that we read it.

Thursday, March 20, 2008

Suggestion for next book

I don't know if anyone has their heart set on something but I thought I'd toss an idea in the hopper for the next book...

On Beauty by Zadie Smith